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What Is Online Public Shaming?
Mass criticism from strangers, why the internet makes it permanent, what it does to the person on the receiving end, and what they can still do. Drawn from Josh Popkin's own account.
Key points
- Public shaming is mass criticism from strangers, aimed at a person's character, career, family and community at once
- It differs from ordinary embarrassment in one way: it does not necessarily end. Search results, screenshots and archived articles keep the worst moment first
- Humiliation at scale can push a person away from society rather than toward accountability
- The person shamed can still speak. First-party content adds to the record without rewriting it. In the U.S., 988 is the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
What it is
Online public shaming is what happens when thousands, or millions, of strangers criticize one person at the same time. The criticism is not limited to the thing the person did. It reaches their character, career, family, friends and community together.
Josh Popkin has been at the center of two internet controversies. His first-person account is What It's Like to Be Publicly Shamed on the Internet. This page is the background to it.
Who it happens to
Anyone whose content reaches enough people. Social media has made almost anyone capable of becoming the target of mass criticism, and it is not limited to people who have clearly done something wrong. Popkin watched creators he represented, including teachers making videos about their work, face strangers trying to get them fired over a single video or disagreement.
The internet has an enormous appetite for controversy. Nuance has a much harder time competing for attention.
Why it does not end
Before the internet, a person could make a mistake, apologize to the people affected, learn from it and move on. Search engines, screenshots, archived articles and reposts changed that. A mistake that lasted minutes can become the first thing a stranger learns about someone years later.
That permanence has a second effect. Once a narrative starts spreading, later stories can repeat claims from earlier stories until repetition looks like corroboration. The internet is good at preserving claims and worse at preserving corrections, context and change. Popkin's close read of the one dot.LA article that has held a page-one result for his name for almost four years is a worked example: one interview, no documents, no update.
What it does to a person
It can make you resent people. Popkin's own experience included periods of depression, anxiety, panic, anger, numbness and suicidal thoughts. New relationships begin with a calculation: explain the past before someone searches your name, or say nothing and hope they find the context themselves?
The stated purpose of public accountability is to make someone recognize a wrong and change. Mass humiliation can do the opposite and push the person further from society. In Popkin's words: "Many people who are publicly shamed need more connection, accountability and support, not total social abandonment."
What someone being shamed can do
First, reach out to a person you trust. A parent, sibling, friend, partner, therapist, coach or attorney. Nobody should go through it alone. If you are in the United States and having thoughts of suicide, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. It is free, confidential and open 24 hours a day.
Second, understand that you still have options. A search result is not a complete biography. Other people do not have exclusive ownership of your story. Journalists can write about you and strangers can post about you, and you can speak too. First-party content lets a person explain events in their own words, acknowledge what they got wrong, challenge claims they believe are inaccurate, provide documentation, and show who they became afterward.
That does not mean rewriting history. It means adding to it.
